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  • Should I pay for one of those expensive personal dating services?

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    A friend of mine recently told me that she loved the service It's Just Lunch. Participants pay about $2,000 to use the service so everyone has skin in the game. You also know that people are committed because they have shelled out a substantial amount of money. All Answers

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    • Should I pay for one of those expensive personal dating services?

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      A friend of mine recently told me that she loved the service It's Just Lunch. Participants pay about $2,000 to use the service so everyone has skin in the game. You also know that people are committed because they have shelled out a substantial amount of money.

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    • What are the qualities that make relationships successful?

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      Respect, trust and vitality. Respect speaks to openness to our partner’s opinions, especially when they are different from our own. We are wired to feel threatened by difference. Successful couples have skill in staying open and curious to our partner’s differences. Anyone can develop this skill with enough practice-we are not born with it. Respect also speaks to honoring our partner for who they are-not who we want them to be. Trust: The three most important questions that all mammals have in relationship are: Do you have my back? Am I your priority? Are you there for me? The family dog requires the same confirmation every time we walk through the door. Why would we have less expectations for each other than our dog? Vitality: Successful couples are like successful people, they are resilient and align with habits, experiences and activities which foster growth, wellness and aliveness.

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    • I have been with my ex for over 20 years and having the same sex--how do I approach it with someone new?

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      Here's your chance to let loose a little bit so go for it!

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    • Where should I go on my first date?

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      Lots of people just like to go for a drink for their first date because they want to limit their time with this person who they don't really know, but some jump right into dinner. Try to have an email exchange first to feel out the situation beforehand and set up a date where you feel comfortable. Lots of people get together early in the evening and make other plans for later so they can always bail on the new date if it's not fun. Feeling relaxed is the most important thing so that you feel confident!

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    • What happens when you see a good friend out with a date you already met through Match?

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      I just decided to play it cool -- smile at my friend, but not go over because I did not want to distract her and her date. Maybe it's the start of a great relationship for her!

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